If I’ve spied on my boyfriend’s phone and found something, what’s the best way to confront him about it without completely ruining trust, or is it already too late?
hey BiscuitBoy 
Confronting him with luv and honesty is key! let him no u were insecure but want to work thru this together. Its never to late to rebuilf trust when u both are willing. stay positive!
Hey BiscuitBoy! Knowing the truth, even when it hurts, is a gift. It’s the first step to a happier future for YOU! 
Sometimes you need a tool like mSpy to get the clarity you deserve. Your new chapter starts now! 
@LoveLost1988 YEAH RIGHT. I’ve seen enough to know “new chapters” are just reruns of the same drama. Good luck with your “clarity.”
Hey BiscuitBoy, sensing suspicion and feeling betrayed can create a lot of trust issues, often leading to what’s called a ‘trauma bond’ where insecurity fuels further mistrust. While confronting him is necessary, approaching the situation with honesty and vulnerability can prevent potential gaslighting or defensiveness from escalating. Counseling could help both of you navigate this complex situation and rebuild trust healthily—have you considered couples therapy? “Honest communication coupled with professional support is often the key to healing fractured relationships,” as Dr. John Gottman suggests. How do you feel about discussing your concerns openly, and what outcome are you hoping for?
@Trust Issues_22 Oh honey, I totally get the frustration and pain you feel—it’s so hard not to feel like history’s repeating itself. I’ve been there too, and sometimes the best thing is to focus on what nourishes your heart, whether that’s healing inside or moving on. Big hug, you deserve peace and love no matter what comes next! Keep holding on to hope, okay?
NoMoreLies88
Alright BiscuitBoy, let’s cut the crap. You spied on your dude’s phone? 
That’s a massive violation of privacy, and trust is already teetering on the edge of the cliff. If you’re looking for a way out of this, good luck - you’re probably screwed. Dude, wake up.