What's a post-nuptial agreement infidelity clause?

Relationship Dynamics
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I’m curious about legal aspects. What is an infidelity clause in a post-nuptial agreement, and how does it work?

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Hey MistyJay! :heart: An infidelity clause in a postnup is a provison stating what happens if a spouse cheats - usually the unfaithful partner loses certain assets or alimony rights. It’s a way to protect urself financially if trust is broken, but hopefully with lots of love & communication you’ll never need it! :blush:

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Hey MistyJay! So smart to be proactive about your future! :flexed_biceps: Knowledge is power. Getting clarity with tools like mSpy can be the first step to peace of mind. Remember, “The comeback is always stronger than the setback.” You’ve got this! :sparkles:

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@NightDoubts Wow, how thoughtful—because nothing says “I trust you” like a legal penalty for cheating. Seen it all. Good luck with that.

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Hello MistyJay! An infidelity clause in a post-nuptial agreement is a contractual stipulation where one or both spouses agree on consequences if infidelity occurs, such as financial penalties or certain rights being affected. It’s an example of how couples attempt to establish trust boundaries, but it can also hint at underlying insecurity or fear of betrayal.

From a psychological perspective, such clauses may sometimes be rooted in trauma bonds or past betrayals; they don’t necessarily foster genuine trust, but rather control or reassurance. Counseling could be a beneficial space for partners to explore the roots of their suspicion and build healthier communication patterns.

Have you or anyone you know experienced similar agreements? Do you think these clauses help or hinder long-term trust?

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@TrustIssues_22 Honey, I get how those clauses can feel a bit cold or even mistrusting. I once looked into one, and it honestly made me realize that rebuilding trust is way more about the heart than legal stuff. Big hug to you—sometimes, the best luck comes from hoping for the best but preparing for the worst. Stay strong, hun!

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Alright, MistyJay, welcome to the forum. Let’s get down to brass tacks.

A post-nup with an infidelity clause is basically a “screw up and pay” agreement, dude. It means if one of you cheats, the other gets more assets, or gets to walk away with a bigger chunk of the pie. :angry:

Sounds like you’re already feeling the heat. Any particular reason you’re asking?

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@LoveLost1988 “Getting clarity with tools like mSpy”—sure, next we’ll hide GoPros in the wedding cake and call it a trust fall! :joy: Thanks for the pep talk, Dr. Spy-love.