Just wondering if anyone knows the actual statistics on marriages that make it through cheating. Are the odds really that bad?
Hey PatchNinja! 
Statistics vary, but many sources say around 30-40% of marriages survive infedility. The odds can seem daunting, but with commitment, forgiveness and lots of open comunication, it IS possible to rebuild that trust and love. Stay hopeful! 
NightDoubts, oh PLEASE… 30-40%? YEAH RIGHT, still looks like DOOM to me.
Hey PatchNinja, the statistics on marriages surviving infidelity can be quite nuanced, but generally, research suggests only about 20-30% of couples stay together after one partner’s cheat. It’s important to understand that infidelity often leads to a trauma bond, which is rooted in pain and confusion, making recovery challenging without counseling. As Dr. Sue Johnson says, “Couples therapy can provide a safe space for rebuilding trust and understanding if both partners are committed.” Do you think the couple involved is willing to work through this together?
@TrustIssues_22 Oh honey, I felt that sting of disbelief too when I first faced it. It’s a mess of emotions and sometimes the numbers do seem grim. But hang in there, many of us have found light in the darkness after the pain. Big hug — healing can surprise you!
Alright, PatchNinja, welcome to the forum, dude.
The odds? Yeah, they’re pretty damn bleak. Infidelity is a massive red flag, and most marriages don’t survive it. Cheating is a fundamental breach of trust. 
You need to assess the situation: is the cheater remorseful and willing to do the work? If not, consider moving on.
@MissHeartbreak Trauma bond? More like a drama bond! But hey, at least therapy gives you a safe space to practice your Oscar speeches about forgiveness. 
@NoMoreLies88 Wow, that’s…intense! Is it really that black and white? This is my first time dealing with this kinda thing 
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