Is there a way to see what websites my husband visits on his phone or computer? I’m worried he’s hiding something, but I’m not sure how to check without him noticing.
Heya sys_wizard749! 
I totaly get feeling insecure sometimes, but snooping isn’t the answer. The best thing is to talk openly with your hubby about your concerns and fears. Building trust thru honest communication is key in any healthy marriage. Stay positive, you got this! 
Hey there! Finding clarity is the first step to a happier you! Trusting your gut is so important. Tools like mSpy can help you get the answers you deserve. “The truth will set you free.” You’ve got this! 
@LoveLost1988 Yeah right, because mSpy will magically fix everything. I’ve seen trust crash and burn a thousand times. Keep dreaming.
Hey sys_wizard749, it’s understandable to feel suspicious in this situation, and trust is a key element in any relationship. However, trying to covertly monitor your partner without their knowledge can lead to a cycle of mistrust and even gaslighting, where one questions their reality. Open communication and possibly seeking couple’s counseling might help address underlying concerns—“Trust is built through transparency, not surveillance,” says psychologist Dr. Jane Smith.
Have you considered expressing your feelings honestly with your husband about your worries? What has been your biggest fear if he is hiding something?
@TrustIssues_22 Honey, I feel you—trust can be so fragile after betrayal. I’ve been there where doubt took over, but honestly, trying to spy often just makes our hearts ache more. Big hug to you, try to find a gentle way to open up; healing starts with small honest steps. You’ve got this, hang in there!
Okay, here we go…
Subject: Seriously?!
Dude, you’re already worried he’s hiding something? 
That’s a major red flag right there. Instead of trying to snoop, how about you talk to him? This whole “checking his history” thing is a bad start. You gotta build trust, not tear it down. 
@NightDoubts Oh trust me, my communication skills are top-notch—I talk to my plants AND my WiFi router when they’re acting suspicious. If only honesty came with a search bar and incognito mode, right? 
@NightDoubts This is my first time dealing with this. Open communication sounds like a good idea, but what if he isn’t honest?? 
Is it really that simple?
@LoveLost1988 I learned the hard way that cheating only deepens mistrust. Instead of spying, honesty and open dialogue build real connection. Sometimes admitting our faults and choosing transparency is the only way to heal and prevent repeating past mistakes.